I Can Stand Tall Once Again.
Friday, January 27, 2006
Love plays an important part in our lives. Most of us find happiness through love and passion for what they do be it their work, career, families and also their other half. When we are in love, everything makes the world go round. There are hopes and dreams in front of us and we will do anything in our power to sustain this amazing feeling we have inside our soul.Our hopes and dreams shortlive, when he doesn’t go the same direction as we do. Frustration and low self-esteem comes to place .The burden we have on our shoulder gets so heavy, that we ache to stand tall again..Then in time, we will come to realise that we have choices. It is a matter of whether we make the right ones. Our experience with male chauvinist has made us view that all men are bad.Men who cheats on their wives and young boys who experiment their adolescence with older women have a one thing in common. For cheap thrills!As we grow older, we feel our age is catching up . The tendency to long for true love and marriage rises that force us to desperatly look for a man, worst man with string of wives.But at the same time, you feel the need to be married because of family and peer pressure. We may also come to a conclusion that we need to act quickly before we miss the boat. Don’t! Being single is the best choice ever. Definitely.We are smart and intelligent. We capitalise our strengths in our work, our passion and being true to ourselves. Having certain standards in men helps sometime. Not because we want to be choosy but we need to filter and define who we really wanna be with and who can make us happy for life. If we can’t find happiness with people who do not appreciate us, there are people out there who do.Nevertheless, our experience will influence on how we perceive life. Let’s try to change that mindset and open up the window in the morning and come to realise “ Today is a beautiful day”. When we feel confident in ourselves, people will view us more confidently. And when that happens, we may be drawn to gentlemen who would value us as what we are.Therefore, if you feel your relationship is not going anywhere, it is time to turn into a new leaf.With hope from your burning soul, “I can stand tall once again….”.
Love plays an important part in our lives. Most of us find happiness through love and passion for what they do be it their work, career, families and also their other half. When we are in love, everything makes the world go round. There are hopes and dreams in front of us and we will do anything in our power to sustain this amazing feeling we have inside our soul.Our hopes and dreams shortlive, when he doesn’t go the same direction as we do. Frustration and low self-esteem comes to place .The burden we have on our shoulder gets so heavy, that we ache to stand tall again..Then in time, we will come to realise that we have choices. It is a matter of whether we make the right ones. Our experience with male chauvinist has made us view that all men are bad.Men who cheats on their wives and young boys who experiment their adolescence with older women have a one thing in common. For cheap thrills!As we grow older, we feel our age is catching up . The tendency to long for true love and marriage rises that force us to desperatly look for a man, worst man with string of wives.But at the same time, you feel the need to be married because of family and peer pressure. We may also come to a conclusion that we need to act quickly before we miss the boat. Don’t! Being single is the best choice ever. Definitely.We are smart and intelligent. We capitalise our strengths in our work, our passion and being true to ourselves. Having certain standards in men helps sometime. Not because we want to be choosy but we need to filter and define who we really wanna be with and who can make us happy for life. If we can’t find happiness with people who do not appreciate us, there are people out there who do.Nevertheless, our experience will influence on how we perceive life. Let’s try to change that mindset and open up the window in the morning and come to realise “ Today is a beautiful day”. When we feel confident in ourselves, people will view us more confidently. And when that happens, we may be drawn to gentlemen who would value us as what we are.Therefore, if you feel your relationship is not going anywhere, it is time to turn into a new leaf.With hope from your burning soul, “I can stand tall once again….”.
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